tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4866288066065959419.post306076866118940156..comments2023-05-09T03:59:46.595-04:00Comments on New Thought Man: My Post on "Yes I'm A Submissive Man!" BlogNTMhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13176525404839186904noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4866288066065959419.post-50513805184824128882014-04-18T16:48:40.064-04:002014-04-18T16:48:40.064-04:00I'm just like Hayley. Naturally dominant, subm...I'm just like Hayley. Naturally dominant, submissive men gravitate towards me, have been the Domme before I even knew the vocabulary of what that was. I'm not cruel, and it would feel like they wanted me to love them less.<br />My preference @ dommelove.tumblr.comAlphahttp://dommelove.tumblr.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4866288066065959419.post-43661356697378458562011-07-13T23:36:25.159-04:002011-07-13T23:36:25.159-04:00I couldn't agree with you more.. on the opposi...I couldn't agree with you more.. on the opposite side of things. I am a kind and considerate Domme and can't help but attract those that want to be verbally degraded. I guess I wasn't born with that bone in my body. <br /><br />I respect my subs the same way they respect me. Their needs are just as important as mine.Hayleynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4866288066065959419.post-3311620845295045862010-11-13T18:30:58.381-05:002010-11-13T18:30:58.381-05:00It could be more than just role play and greater t...It could be more than just role play and greater than the stereotypes of domme/ sub relationships.Meeting Women In Barshttp://www.lawofdating.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4866288066065959419.post-44924263411103158142009-11-17T14:56:12.355-05:002009-11-17T14:56:12.355-05:00Who knows where to download XRumer 5.0 Palladium? ...Who knows where to download XRumer 5.0 Palladium? <br />Help, please. All recommend this program to effectively advertise on the Internet, this is the best program!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4866288066065959419.post-39406654262386328932009-03-31T19:13:00.000-04:002009-03-31T19:13:00.000-04:00Hi, I'm new to blogging so excuse me if I'...Hi, I'm new to blogging so excuse me if I'm not doing this 'right'. I'm feeling really puzzled right now by something. I am an attractive mid-30's woman who recently met a very confident and successful man with whom I really connected. We started spending more time together and it wasn't long before our conversations took a sexual tone at times. He shared with me, without actually saying it, that he wants to submit himself to me sexually. Now, I have always been a submissive woman; ok maybe now & then I would act slightly aggressive by taking a certain action, but nothing more. I like this man very much and want to be close to him and share this type of intimacy, but I have no clue how to act, what to say, how to turn him on and keep it going. <BR/><BR/>Last night we were together, and things fizzled cold as quickly as they started. I am a very sexual woman and have never had this happen to me, where a man was instantly turned off amidst... I believe it may have been because I fell into my regular role of allowing the man to take charge, but again, as silly as it seems, I truly have no idea how to engage him, how to talk to him to let him know I am totally into it, and how to make him feel what he needs to feel. I could be wrong, but I feel I may have totally lost his interest now over what happened last night. I want to share this with him, nurturing and supporting his desire to be submissive, and would like very much to have this type of relationship with him....but oh do I need major guidance. Please help me!!Unknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17737998370041307744noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4866288066065959419.post-7327307015799379152008-03-23T08:54:00.000-04:002008-03-23T08:54:00.000-04:00I'm surprised no one has commented in so many mont...I'm surprised no one has commented in so many months, but felt I should add my two cents.<BR/><BR/>You are not alone. I completely identify with every single word and sentiment you have written about in your post. Exactly.<BR/><BR/>It seems the dynamic of a submissive man has been twisted and taken advantage of by many selfish, emotionally unevolved women.<BR/><BR/>It also brushes too closely with the culturally and socially misguided notion that submission equates to weakness and weakness is despicable. There seems to be an inability to reconcile the fact that a man can be strong in his submission and also desirable despite sometimes showing vulnerability.<BR/><BR/>The weakness, I believe, is in the fear to show any vulnerability. And how many of these supposed dominant women are utterly afraid of ever letting go, showing vulnerability and letting a submissive man lovingly nurture her in those times of 'weakness'? And how many understand that a relationship is about giving and receiving and that men have emotional needs as well, which are not necessarily met by constant humiliation and emasculation (although such may represent a fetish it does not preclude all other emotional needs).<BR/><BR/>What of the archetype of the noble, loyal knight, serving his queen? Valued and respected for his dedication. Loved, even. Is it so hard to imagine a blossoming romance in such a scenario?<BR/><BR/>It is my opinion that it is the rare, emotionally and spiritually evolved and progressive woman that can fully appreciate such a relationship dynamic. I know they exist, but it saddens me that such women are in such short supply.Unknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10510338768057957052noreply@blogger.com